A 20–30 minute conversation on Zoom, with a Clinical Psychologist who works with men. A straight conversation about what's actually getting in the way at home — the kind most dads never get asked about. Your answers will also help me finish a programme I'm building for fathers. But the conversation is for you.
Most dads I see in clinic don't arrive with a dramatic story. They arrive with a quiet, persistent sense that something is off. That they're not quite the father they thought they'd be. That their reactions at home aren't matching the person they are at work, or the person they want their kids to know.
If any of the below feel familiar, you're exactly the dad I'd like to speak with.
Whether you've got a newborn, a primary-schooler, or a teenager in the house — the inside question is largely the same.
After 12 years in the NHS and private practice, I've sat with a lot of men who look fine on the outside and carry something heavy underneath. I want to build something that actually helps men like that — which means hearing from them before I finish it. What really gets in the way. What you've already tried. What would genuinely help.
Your voice, in your words, directly shapes what this becomes.
The whole thing is designed to respect your time and make the 20–30 minutes worth having.
Read the rest of this page. If it sounds like you, book a time below — takes a minute.
20–30 minutes on Zoom. Evenings and weekends available.
I'll ask about what gets in the way, what you've tried, and what kind of tools would actually help. Practical, not personal.
No follow-up expected. If you'd like to hear when the programme opens, just tell me on the call and I'll keep you posted. Otherwise, nothing more from me.
What you share stays between us. I take notes on themes and language, not identifying details, and nothing you say will be attributed to you anywhere without your explicit permission.
This is a conversation, not therapy. If something difficult comes up during the call, I'll pause and signpost you properly. If you're currently in acute distress, please contact your GP or Samaritans on 116 123.
If you've got 20–30 minutes and something you'd want a programme like this to actually do for men like you, I'd really value hearing it. I'm doing about 15 of these in total — if you'd like a slot, the easiest way is to book directly below.